Need some relationship advice asap?

I know it's usually us women who over yze thoughts and actions of members of the opposite , but I feel as though maybe you are doing this here. I'm not minimalizing your true feels, but I think a good approach to this situation is to straight out ask her in a comfortable conversation setting if there is anything you can say or do to make her feel appreciated, because you feel you've not been doing enough of that recently. (even if you have, just saying this will make her feel loved) this can open the doors to mentioning the paris trip, if she responds positively. I say go for it. The paris trip will definitely NOT make it worse. best of luck!